And the American Way!

“The Super Bowl is nothing but kapitalist propaganda. Mother Russia has truth, justice, and the revolutionary way!”

My progress with The One Minute Millionaire is painfully slow. I’m not even talking about efforts towards being a millionaire, I just mean reading the book. While I do get the affirmations read every day, I often don’t get more than a page or two further with my reading. I’m hoping to meet with some of my friends to talk business this month, but I’ll admit, I’m a bit nervous about whether my presentation will be worth their time. Right now, I’m reading about how you need “Infinite Networks” on your side if you wanna make it. Basically, they mean “God.”

This post is going to be a bit more tangential. I may say a few things about the book, but my intent is to write about my past efforts at business. Specifically, I intend to write about Amway. Let’s dig in.

The first image you will see on their website. The organization (I don’t know how accurate it is to call it a company, since it isn’t or at least didn’t used to be, publicly traded) was founded on vitamins. Herbal Life, if I remember correctly, was the seminal product of the multi-Level behemoth.

My first experiences with Amway were when my dad talked to me about it as a kid. Someone on the radio was advertising for them (I think it was Paul Harvey, but I don’t really remember), and dad told me how he had been in it some years before. He said he loved the idea of it, the whole idea that everyone involved was making money on it, but he told me it hadn’t worked for him because his downline (the folks who sign up under you and basically buy their products from your line of the organization) felt they had no need to work, they felt that just chilling like a villain would earn them millions.

Have you tried Amway? Did it work for you? Do you think they are ethical, or do you agree with Dilbert that it is little more than a pyramid scheme? Comments wanted.

Later on, when I was a young man in my 20s, I joined Amway, and while I did not become a great success, (I basically broke even) I would put it down as the second-best experience I have ever had attempting to get into or start a business, so my honest bias is pro-Amway.

Having said that…25 years later, I’ve been single for five years, and I’ve not even thought about maybe signing up for it again until now.

I want to keep this one short. My reason for this post is actually dual purposed, but I want to keep one of the blades close in. The art of war is the practice of deception. In no way do I mean to deceive my readers, but my purpose will be more powerful, and more entertaining, I think, if I don’t give it all away too soon. So I’m going to share two things instead of my usual three. One will be the positives about Amway. The other the negatives. And as always, I’m hoping my readers will be pleased with the journey.

Accentuate the Positive

https://www.amwayglobal.com/corporate-social-responsibility/

https://directsellingstar.com/mlm-millionaires/#:~:text=On%20the%20top%20of%20the%20list%20is%20the,started%20their%20career%20with%20Amway.%201.%20Kim%20Hui

https://optionstogrow.com/the-7-habits-of-highly-effective-people-how-it-has-transformed-my-life-and-why-it-can-change-yours/

While I never became a millionaire, Amway has helped quite a few people get there. They also give very generously to various charities, and the business had more of a positive impact on me than a negative one (though there was a negative impact as well…read on if interested).

The most positive influence it had on me was to introduce me to the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. Of all the self-help books out there, this was the one that taught me the most. Unfortunately, a lot of corporations have stolen some buzz words from it, and there are too many (I was once one of these people) who see a mission statement as the bedrock of an organization, when most corporations see them as nothing, but empty PR intended to confuse the masses. But little of that is Covey’s fault. I still believe that after certain holy texts and the works of C S Lewis, this is likely the best thing you can read. IMHO his other books fall far short of the high standard of this one, but I think once he became a billionaire himself, something happened. He tried to get it back in his book about the eighth habit, but still there seemed to be something missing. But a great deal of what little success I’ve had come from my efforts to inculcate these habits.

Behold My Works and Despair!

One of my favorite poems is Ozymandias by Percy Bysshe Shelley.
“I met a traveller from an antique land,

Who said—“Two vast and trunkless legs of stone

Stand in the desert. . . . Near them, on the sand,

Half sunk a shattered visage lies, whose frown,

And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,

Tell that its sculptor well those passions read

Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,

The hand that mocked them, and the heart that fed;

And on the pedestal, these words appear:

My name is Ozymandias, King of Kings;

Look on my Works, ye Mighty, and despair!

Nothing beside remains. Round the decay

Of that colossal Wreck, boundless and bare

The lone and level sands stretch far away.”

No, it is not my intent to totally trash Amway, or to persuade you not to join it (or to join, for that matter). But ending with the negatives will serve my clandestine supervillain purposes. Here are the websites I will derive my sources from.

https://wealthybydefault.com/is-amway-a-scam

Most of the front pages are pro Amway, which is fine, but again, I’m trying to share that there is a dark side to it we need to explore, just like anything has its shadow side. But in my experience, I don’t really see them as a pyramid scheme either, though I do get the thinking of those that do.
Some have better stories than others.

wealthybydefault.com has this to say: “An MLM business is similar to that of a pyramid structure.” MLM stands for “multi-level marketing.”

This is the thing that scares a lot of people about Amway. And more or less legitimately the pro Amway crowd will tell you the difference between Amway and something like Burney Madoff is this: “One thing that is a distinguisher between Amway and other MLM companies is the fact that their products are of the highest quality. When a product is good, more people will be willing to purchase them, even with a higher price tag.

“Another big difference is the sense of stability that comes with Amway. You see, a big percentage of MLM companies last for a short period of time, up to a few years. When they crumble and fail, a lot of people end up losing their money just because the company failed.

“No one has to worry about that happening any time soon with Amway. They have been around for more than 60 years now, and are making $8-$9 billion a year in sales
. Some things need to be considered here for the sake of clarity.”

So then, what is the negative? “1. The Products Are Expensive. The products inside Amway are a bit more expensive compared to other similar products. This is something that most MLM’s have in common, however even if the quality is high, it can be difficult to convince people to pay more for something.

2. It Can Be Hard To Succeed. Using this particular MLM business model, it can be really difficult to start earning money if you don’t know what you’re doing. Amway is definitely NOT recommended for beginners.

“The competition inside can be really tough, as there will people who have been doing this for years. I’m not saying that it’s impossible to achieve success, however, it will help by a lot if you are good at online marketing.

3. Recruiters Can Exaggerate A Lot. It’s what they do, that’s how they make money. By recruiting others and getting them to join. This means that some people will try to do whatever it takes to get you to become a member under them.

“If the person doesn’t know better, they can be easily fooled by false promises of wealth and riches overnight. This can lead to bad user experience, which is a big part of why some people dislike Amway and other MLM’s.”

In the end, I think whether you join it or not, you can be a successful person. And I believe your success in the organization would essentially be for very similar reasons to why you might succeed outside of the organization. Like The One Minute Millionaire has been telling me in the last few pages, you have to leverage your mentor, your team, your network. And whatever beliefs you have about God, your efforts will have to line up with the natural laws our reality works under. I enjoy reading fantasy, but if I decide I’m going to jump off a cliff, it’s my own fool fault when I crash and break my skull on the bottom. The Law of Gravity didn’t kill me, my own stupidity did.

There is more to come, and no, likely the next post is not going to be my announcement that I joined Amway, and I’d love to invite you and two of your best friends to a party at my house…etc etc. If I do decide to join Amway, I will do that in different venue. Maybe keep your eyes out for something like: Amwayilluminatischeme.com. I don’t know…name needs work.

I wonder if I could end this with a Marvel movie after credits thing…?

Do you remember at the end of Avengers when you see Thanos? If you read the comics, you knew who he was, if not you likely wondered (if you bothered to stay till the end) who in Sam Hell this dude was. Who is this Betsy DeVos person? Has anyone else read the right comic books?
Doesn’t this sound familiar to anyone who has read a little Tired Blogging? Still…why is the Tired Blogger talking about DeVos? Just because Oklahoma learned our terrible education system ideology from the feds? One more hint and then I’m done.
Some of you may get it now. Comments welcome.

The Crazy Handbook of Oklahoma Politics

Oklahoma has been a bottom tier state my whole life. Our politics has been corrupt for a solid century, and I don’t see much hope for the future here. I’m going to do a quick Tired Blogger deep dive into WHY things are so screwed up here, at least on the political sphere.

I’m taking a break from the John Bennett series. There is information I am requiring to make it beneficial to my readers and not just my lame speculation. As much as I’ve made fun of Lance Beefflank, I’m pretty sure he would win in a brawl. And even if somehow the whole “What in the world is that behind you?” trick worked and I got away, I’m finding his network is pretty much James Bond territory, so if I’m going to anger someone who could easily end me, I at least wanna make it one last good post. So in the meanwhile I’ll give you my half baked analysis on why Oklahoma is screwed.

First of all, there is not even a semblance of democracy here. It has no bearing on party, we are a one party state, and a monopoly never cares about its customers. Second, our economy is dominated by the most tyrannical, spirit killing industries ever, and the haves have ground the half nots into the dirt. Whether it is true elsewhere or not, in Oklahoma Meatloaf’s lyrics are correct. Its not a game, its just a rout. Last of all…education. We’ve been dumbing down for 30 years (and I suspect that is deliberate), so there isn’t a strong enough base of intelligent people to rock the boat. With the Morlocks tamed, the Eloi need do nothing but play.

Let’s dig in.

Red State Hell! There is No Competition!

I wonder if I could win a political race if nobody showed up to run against me.

https://oklahomawatch.org/2022/09/06/why-most-oklahoma-state-legislative-races-are-uncontested/

https://tulsaworld.com/news/state-and-regional/govt-and-politics/oklahoma-watch-most-state-legislative-races-not-competitive/article_3b3a2c6c-2ede-11ed-8f6e-875a420537ac.html

https://oklahomawatch.org/newsletter/democracy-watch-as-uncontested-races-are-on-the-rise-how-can-voters-have-a-greater-voice/

According to the Tulsa World: “Nearly 70% of Oklahoma’s state legislative elections will be decided without a single vote cast in November.

Those uncontested, no-voters-required races span the state — from Bartlesville to Edmond to west Lawton, where a former Oklahoma Sooners football player named Larry Bush lost the closest state House race in 2018.”

According to Oklahomawatch.org in the last elections cycle “Oklahoma voters will decide only 31 of 101 House races and seven of 24 Senate on Nov. 8, a far cry from those 2018 midterms, when the statewide teacher walkout inspired more than 100 active and retired teachers, support staff and school board members to file for state legislative seats.” Now I know why I don’t feel heard. The people running the show don’t have to listen. Where have I heard something like this before?

Party Unity at its finest…now I know where the Oklahoma Republican party gets its political strategy from…

Oklahomawatch.org criticized the Democrat party for not doing a better job of fielding candidates in rural Oklahoma, and I do think that is a legitimate criticism. But then, the Democrat party in Oklahoma is dying. Even the Democrats in Oklahoma are conservatives compared to their national leadership, and I’m sure the Clintons, the Obamas, and George Soros are lying awake in agony over the loss of Oklahoma to their party. Honestly, unless we turn things around, neither party is ever going to give a dog’s crap about this state.

Who Has the Gold Makes the Rules

The top industries and the top employers in Oklahoma are the most abusive tyrant rat bastards that were ever spawned in Satan’s sewage pool of so called capitalism. We have the oil and gas industry, which basically broke my father. The banking industry, which has broken everyone else. Wal-Mart. The medical industry. At least farming isn’t on there. Thank God we broke all the small farmers, if we hadn’t the proletariat might have been able to escape their oppression and at least find jobs on farms.

https://toughnickel.com/industries/Why-Never-To-Work-for-Walmart

https://www.oklahoman.com/story/news/1999/11/21/mob-came-oklahoma-murder-plot-weaves-web-around-fbi-corruption-allegations-surface-unsolved-killing/62220435007/

http://chrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://www.fdic.gov/bank/historical/history/3_85.pdf

Surely a state with so much history of hate and violence couldn’t have any of this coming. Image from https://www.okhistory.org/publications/enc/entry?entryname=KU%20KLUX%20KLAN. Give it a read, if you believe in God, it might explain a lot about what has happened in my lifetime.

Meanwhile, our economy keeps slipping, and the rates of poverty keeps rising. But at least the Waltons can keep betting on the ponies, hobnob with the Clintons, and dictate our state education policies. On that note…

Dumb, dumber, dumbest. You mean to tell me we ain’t gotta chance.

I’ve written ad nauseam about this but…the rich want their kids getting the best education, but they want your kids dumb as posts so that they will be good docile workers, and not have the brains to start their own businesses and possibly be competition. Let’s take a quick look.

https://www.ocpathink.org/post/study-demographics-dont-explain-oklahomas-bad-school-results

https://okpolicy.org/poverty-oklahoma-compared-third-world-nation/

https://www.ocpathink.org/post/oklahomas-best-school-fares-poorly-in-national-comparison

Reminds me of home…

According to ocpathink.org “Oklahoma’s NAEP results are so bad the state remained mired at 45th in Flanders’ study. The gap between what Oklahoma should have scored, based on student demographics, and how the state actually scored on NAEP, was among the largest in the country—on the negative side of the ledger. Only six states fared worse.

“Oklahoma’s results contrasted sharply with most other states that have comparable or greater levels of child poverty.

“Among the nine states that have a larger share of children living in poverty than Oklahoma, six achieved higher NAEP fourth-grade reading scores than Oklahoma: Tennessee, South Carolina, Kentucky, Arkansas, Louisiana, and Mississippi.

“And seven of the nine outperformed Oklahoma after adjusting NAEP results based on student demographics.”

Even compared to states that have similar levels of poverty, our children are not doing well. One has to wonder why?

Another article states that “The Jenks Public Schools district has been identified as the best school in Oklahoma in a national review, despite that same evaluation finding less than half of students at the district read at grade level.

“In no other state were less than half of students proficient in reading at a state’s “best” school.

“The website Stacker, which describes its mission as the production of “engaging data journalism,” recently released an article that identified what its researchers concluded was the “best school district in every state.” The Jenks district, located in a suburb of Tulsa, was named Oklahoma’s best.

“But the Stacker evaluation also stated that just 44 percent of the more than 12,000 students in the district are “reading proficient,” a measurement that typically refers to students who read at grade level.”

This was reported June 9, 2021.

And from okpolicy.org we learn “Faced with a 30 percent cut in its programs and activities budget, the state Department of Education slashed funding for high-quality early childhood programs by $2.5 million and eliminated funding for financial literacy programs. Oklahoma used to invest heavily in parenting training for disadvantaged families, but the Department of Education just eliminated the last $1 million from the Parents-as-Teachers program, while the Health Department has cut funding for the Children First program by 30 percent since 2011. Until five years ago, the state provided over $2 million for adult education programs; that funding was wiped out in 2011. Drug treatment providers had their contracts cut earlier this year by the Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse Services, and those in need of residential drug treatment face long waiting lists. The number of families qualifying for child care subsidies has been declining for years, and in June DHS announced a freeze – to be lifted in August – on accepting new families for subsidies.  And as a final blow, a single mother with two kids working year-round at $10/hr will now lose $231 a year because the Legislature cut the state Earned Income Tax Credit.”

But on the flip side, at least Walters is keeping our children pure by unilaterally banning a book…oh wait, what? Oh…my overpaid assistants told me that the book had never been in an Oklahoma school library. My bad.

https://thelostogle.com/2023/02/09/ryan-walters-demands-okcps-pull-book-from-library-thats-already-been-pulled-from-library

As I shake my head in disgust, I hope your Super Bowl team wins, I hope you climb out of poverty, and I hope you have a great Valentines.

I’m not criticizing libsoftiktok, I’m criticizing Walters. Whatever your beliefs, whatever your stance on politics, don’t just rely on social media to do your thinking for you. And don’t go off half cocked about things that you don’t really understand. And maybe make some efforts to understand the people you are leading. Walters, you have some good teachers. You don’t need to make a big event out of anything. I know you have your eye on that governors chair, and you likely will be propped up for life by the Waltons. All good, but Oklahoma has enough embarrassment to deal with. Just stop it already.

We’re Gonna Git Them Thar Duke Boys! And the Little Dog Too!

The Face of the Republican Party, Chip Bluntskull was the Oklahoma GOP chairman from April 2021 until April 2022. And no, this was not just a sad April Fool’s joke. Wait, what? My overpaid assistant tells me I have the name wrong. I guess that is John Bennett. How did I get that wrong?

This one will be a series and may be broken up between my insane reviews of The One Minute Millionaire. As most of you know, I’ve been avoiding the topic of politics this year, because I feel discouraged about the whole thing. Both state and national politics seem to be pretty messed up.

One of my readers hit me up on a social media network and asked me to look into John Bennett. I heard some things from this source that would have baffled me if I weren’t myself an ex-conservative myself.

Before this discussion, I hadn’t known a thing about this fellow. I don’t follow the minutia of politics, the Oklahoma party chairman pretty much falls under my radar. After the things I’m learning, that may have to change.

Governor Stitt having a discussion with HE Ahmad Al-Sayed, Minister of State and Chairman of QFZA. Al-Sayed is expressing gratitude for us not sending Bennett out there.

Some of you may remember I wrote quite a bit about the last gubernatorial race (emphasis on “guber.”) I have several friends who are teachers, and they motivated me to be interested, and I did some research and wrote my posts, and dug up some dirt, not on him, but on others, and sent that to several reporters and so far, I fall asleep to the sounds of crickets. To be fair, maybe the reporters are researching and just don’t have time to send me responses. I don’t like bugging people (why do you think I never chose to be a reporter), and so I won’t send you a bunch of questions like “What do you think of this? Did you look into that? Is there a possibility we might have hope for our children’s education?” You get the idea.

What did my source tell me? Why am I suddenly motivated to write again? Read on.

Build me an army worthy of Mordor…

Oh yeah, Weird Al and I are gonna put on the tinfoil hat and tell you a story that will either make your hair stand up on end or will make you wanna clash your swords against your shields and cry out “man flesh is back on the menu boys!”

My source described Chet Beafflank…I mean John Bennett as a used car shyster who has mesmerized certain Republicans for his amusement and profit. My source painted a picture of people enthralled by him, eager to do what he wanted. One of their first encounters with him they state that he was able to obtain $1000 in donations just visiting a bar. I can’t verify this, so my apologies if somehow, I misunderstood my source. And don’t get me wrong, I’ve been in sales, so I get that sometimes you have to put the selling shoes on and make a good go of it. But the method of selling was, according to my source, somewhat less than dignified.

Shout out to the NSA agent monitoring my blog. No, please don’t send me a bunch of hateful messages accusing me of hate mongering. This image is from Big McLargeHuge’s Facebook page. I mean the Bennett guy! Don’t bother looking, it has since been deleted. Just a service of your Tired Blogger. You’re welcome.

I’m going to share five links. Likely my bias is showing, but I will share his campaign website, and if I can find any pro Bennett sites that don’t give me the heeby jeeby’s I’ll share them as well in the interests of fairness.

https://johnbennettforcongress.com/

https://ballotpedia.org/John_R._Bennett_(Oklahoma)

https://nationalfile.com/general-flynn-makes-second-endorsement-throws-support-behind-john-bennett-for-gop-chair-of-oklahoma/

https://tulsaworld.com/news/state-and-regional/govt-and-politics/anti-islam-former-state-rep-john-bennett-to-head-oklahoma-republican-party/article_e6584f1a-9bba-11eb-a32c-1b46e3ee5d32.html

https://www.thebulwark.com/meet-john-bennett-the-oklahoma-republican-partys-very-special-chairman/

https://www.koco.com/article/state-democratic-leaders-muslim-community-call-out-oklahoma-gop-after-bennett-named-chair/36100759

https://www.newsweek.com/new-oklahoma-gop-chairman-once-appeared-call-hillary-clintons-execution-1582869

I may not quote from all of these, but I felt I would serve my readers better if you at least have access to all of my online sources of information. Let me know if you find verification for the $1000 donation in a bar.

Retired 4 star general and former NSA chief to the Trumpster, Michael Knight endorses Punch Rock Groin for Oklahoma Grifter’s on Pot organization. What? I got another one wrong? I’m telling you, it’s hard to get good help these days.

Now that I’ve talked your ear off, let’s dive in. I’ll tell you who John Bennet is, why he is controversial, and then I’ll try to give some vague justification for why I’m worried about him. By the end, you’ll either be worried too, or you will be signing sending him your debit card and pin number. Let’s begin.

According to his campaign website he is a pastor, family man, and business owner. He “is a Constitutional Conservative whose life has been dedicated to service and defending Liberty, both in the Oklahoma State Legislature and as a United States Marine.” He stands for God, family, and country. He believes that America comes first, in a strong second amendment, strong borders, American energy independence, fiscal responsibility, and rebuilding our military.

He has been endorsed by a couple of big names, Rudy Giuliani and Retired 4 star general and former NSA chief to the Ex-President Trump, Michael Flynn. According to The National File, General Flynn was quoted as saying “I strongly endorse John Bennett as the next GOP Chairperson for the Great State of Oklahoma. To all those delegates who represent the patriotic citizens of Oklahoma, your choice is clear and simple.” So, with some reservations, he sounds like a strong man and a strong candidate. So why is my Spidey sense tingling?

Slab Squatthrust is shown here smiling with Mayor Rudy Giuliani Roger Stone and Jackson Rhodes Lahmeyer. Darn it! I mean John Bennett. Does Giuliani’s endorsement make you think your Tired Blogger is wrong to have my bias, or does it edge you toward agreeing with me. Comments welcome.

I am still conservative enough that there are several things on his Facebook page I like. (And I can hear the horrified gasps of the half of my readers who are still reading after I’ve insulted most of my conservative friends). By all means take a gander at his site, make up your own mind about whether you like him or not. But now I’m about to reveal why my bias is against him.

I think thebulwark.com from August 3, 2021, gives IMHO the best biography of him (including his own campaign site) that I can find. “

“Who is John Bennett? Just another great Republican Patriot.

“He graduated from high school in Oklahoma, joined the Marines and served in Iraq and Afghanistan. Then, he came back, got a communications degree from the University of Phoenix (nota bene: not the ASU campus in Phoenix) and got himself elected to the Oklahoma state house. As a legislator, his signature accomplishment was mandating “that public schools recite the Pledge of Allegiance at least once a week.”

“After four terms, Bennett left the Oklahoma House, citing a self-imposed term limit. He became a Pentecostal pastor and was then elected chair of the Oklahoma GOP earlier this year.”

According to The Tulsa World: “During his eight years in the Oklahoma House of Representatives, 2011-19, Bennett was known for his fiery rhetoric and verbal attacks on Muslim Americans.

“He labeled CAIR, Soltani and Imam Imad S. Enchassi of the Islamic Society of Greater Oklahoma City as terrorists during a House interim study during October 2016.”

Here we have Buff Manchest (yes, I intend to run the joke into the ground), and a questionnaire he wrote for the annual Muslim Day that he required Muslim students to fill out if they wished to participate. https://www.dnaindia.com/world/report-oklahoma-lawmaker-asks-muslims-do-you-beat-your-wife-2343145

At the risk of angering a lot of readers, I have friends who are still very upset about 9/11 who will likely be suspicious of Muslim’s for the rest of their lives. But I think even the most suspicious of them would have more respect than to 1) require anyone to fill out a “loyalty report” for any official state function that doesn’t involve top secret clearance, and 2) even if they did, I don’t think they would have the Neanderthal disdain for another people to ask such an insulting question.

The Tulsa World continues: “CAIR is a Muslim civil liberties and advocacy group working to enhance the understanding of Islam.

“Bennett was equally outspoken in his opposition to gun control and abortion rights, and he often clashed with even fellow Republicans. Agencies warning of cutbacks in senior services because of huge budget shortfalls in 2017 also were terrorists, and tax increases to address the situation were unnecessary, he said.

“If some were put off by Bennett’s polemics, many others were enthralled. At Saturday’s convention, he defeated three other candidates on the first ballot.”

So, if you are liberal and I haven’t lost you yet, almost certainly you are horrified. If you are conservative, I wonder what you are thinking and feeling at the moment. Because as a centrist, I’m trying to tell you that this is the stupid bs that is causing people to believe conservatives are crazy racists.

Now that we’ve learned a little bit about the man, I intend to do a little more digging. Likely I will find out that I am wrong, I don’t doubt there will be a photo of Mother Theresa hugging him. Yes, I’m leaving you with a cliffhanger on purpose. I have some special information that I want to share with you, but I believe tagging it on the end of all this information may be a bit overwhelming for some.

And also, I want to do more digging. There are parts of the story I am wanting to share that I hope to verify, and there are other parts that I can verify, but I feel like the bombshell is best dropped after you have a chance to digest what I’ve shared here.

SARCASM ALERT SARCASM ALERT SARCASM ALERT! Unfair sarcastic joke incoming.

To quote my favorite tv show about the man, “We put our faith in Slab Hardcheese!”

Well, that’s all for now, stay tuned for more Tired Blogging about the wonderful leadership of the Oklahoma Republican Party!

Look, I’m no fan of Anthony Fauci. I haven’t done enough research to do an informed blog, but I don’t buy the narrative that he is a great leader/hero who led us through the desert of the Pandemic while Donald Trump bumbled on until Biden got vaccines for all of us. But having said that…trying him and then executing him? Is this really what mainstream Oklahoma Republicanism looks like? And how can we complain about Hillary joking about using drones to assassinate Julien Assange if we turn around and joke about double tapping her? Please comment, I’d really like to know. Am I the crazy man, or is he?

Tired Blogging for the Masses

I know, I know, I already used that photo. I just like looking at it.

I’m working on two posts, that I hope will be entertaining and informative, but there is no way I’ll get either of them finished tonight, and I wanted to at least provide something, partly because I committed to myself to make three blog posts a week, and partly because I’m getting a handful of readers (most of whom are pretty awesome people) and I want them to have something to read. So let me spin the Wheel of Topics and see what I come up with.

The Wheel spins…rattles past the politics…past history…past the collusion of big government with big tech with big pharma…past conspiracy theories…past my silly efforts at YouTube and TikTok videos…past the war in Ukraine…past several self help issues…and lands on self confidence.

In one of my earlier posts about The One Minute Millionaire, I shared and vaguely discussed how affirmations (which so many self helpers preach as gospel) are not helpful for the depressed, or for those with low self esteem, but become helpful once you have attained a certain level of confidence.

So in this post, as it is getting late and I am more tired even than usual, I’m going to do a very quick Tired Blogger analysis about confidence. In the future you can expect (unless you are tired of me talking about it, comments welcome) me to continue with my journey through the OMM, and/or you can expect some railings about a political figure that a secret government insider has shared some information about.

In our time, confidence has been esteemed as the greatest virtue. Lincoln is one of my greatest heroes. I do read confidence in that weathered face, but I also read more sadness, and resolve in those haunting eyes. Could Lincoln have been elected by our current Republican Party?

I’m gonna make this one quick. I’m still gonna discuss three things though. The positives of having confidence, the negatives of arrogance, and lastly, how to cultivate a healthy amount of confidence without becoming a di…er…doo…er…doofas!

I Have Confidence They’ll Put Me to the Test!

Jordan Peterson says that without confidence “You are like a rabbit… A rabbit is not virtuous, it’s harmless, it can do nothing, except maybe get eaten.” I know that when I am most depressed, or when the chronic fatigue gets really overwhelming, confidence is one of the first things to go (right after my ability to remember the names of celebrities).

When I was young, I was taught that Jesus said  “Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out.” When I was young I thought this was about virtue and kindness, and I think that is part of it, but now I also think it is about being confident in your walk. We get the phrase “he is worth his salt” from those Roman times. It meant he was a good soldier, because a soldier had at one time been paid with salt, from which we get the word “salary.” When I think of a Roman soldier, I am not often thinking “rabbit,’ still less “harmless.”

Compare this man to Lincoln. Do you read confidence? At least I believe there is a kind of confidence in this man. But is all confidence good?

I Have Confidence the World Can All Be Mine

The great sin in the Judeo-Christian religion is pride. I think in modern parlance it might be better translated as arrogance. The word pride has changed in connotation, in the last century or so, and I don’t want to argue with anyone at this point whether that is good or ill. But I have yet to know anyone (outside of a Conan story) who would say that arrogance was a good quality.

And that is the trouble, methinks. Confidence, pride, dignity, I don’t think these qualities are themselves negative. But I do believe a narrow minded arrogance is. Nor is the merely a Western proposition. Chen Yu-Hsi, Ph.D. of the school of religious studies in Fo Guang University, Taiwan, shares that “Like other spiritual traditions, Buddhism sees humility as a virtue. In the Buddhist text on Maha-karuna (great compassion), humility is one of the ten sacred qualities attributed to Avalokite Bodhisattva, or Buddha of Compassion. Within that context, it appears to be a natural by-product of supreme spiritual attainments that transcends the ego, just as are the four noble states of mind — love, compassion, sympathetic joy and equanimity.

“However, Mahayana Buddhism1 also advocates humility as a moral precept. As such it is often expressed in terms of exhortation against an arrogant or haughty attitude. Being a sign of ego-centeredness, pride is seen as impeding acceptance of the Buddha’s teachings and progress towards spiritual liberation. Buddhist practitioners believe that only a humble mind can readily recognize its own defilements of craving (or greed), aversion (or hatred) and ignorance, thereby embarking on the path of enlightenment and liberation.

“The Platform Sutra tells a story about how the Sixth Patriarch, Master Hui Neng, of the Chinese Zen Sect reprimanded a follower for his arrogant attitude. That follower felt self-conceited about his knowledge of a major Buddhist sutra and knowingly or unknowingly kept his head above the ground while bowing to the master. At that point the master gave him a lecture that his lack of humility suggested that having a great knowledge of the sutra fettered his mind rather than liberating it. In other words, when religious knowledge, like other knowledge, adds to “intellectual arrogance” and self-conceit, it becomes an impediment to what religious practice is supposed to attain. Elsewhere in the Platform Sutra, the Sixth Patriarch teaches that behaving humbly and according to propriety is a merit and a desirable moral quality that comes from insight into the spiritual reality. Humility in this sense is both a prerequisite for liberation and salvation from the deluded ego and a manifestation thereof.”

https://www.meaning.ca/archives/archive/art_buddhist-humility_C_Yu_Hsi.htm

So while confidence is a virtue, over confidence, arrogance, these are flaws in the traditions of both the East and the West.

I have confidence in sunshine
I have confidence in rain
I have confidence that spring will come again

I have confidence I will be forgiven for swiping lyrics from a great musical. On that note, does this woman scream out “confidence”? She should, she outwitted the Nazis.

Using the example of Lincoln, he had the self confidence to surround himself with strong and intelligent people. They were the best America had to offer, and he build a cabinet out of political rivals. I never realized until this late time of life, just how confident he really had to be, in order to listen to people who often thought he was an idiot, often thought they were better than them, and yet have both the wisdom to see when they were right, and when they were wrong. The same rivals that scorned him at the beginning of his administration wept like they had lost their father when he die.

So listen up corporate hacks who run this nation. Confidence neither is, nor is obtained, but surrounding yourself with sycophants and “yes men.” I know I feel great for about five minutes when it is obvious I am the smartest man in the room, but after those minutes, it gets boring real fast. And frankly, the job just isn’t as well done.

“Looky there Hillary! There’s the Tire Blogger writing another article as if he knows what he’s talking about.” What about these folks? Do you read confidence, arrogance, rabbit? Comments welcome.

Likely I short changed ya’ll on this one, but my lame excuse is weariness and a desire to get something out, even if it is not quite the quality you deserve. I have a request for the next one, and so I will likely be writing about some shenanigans in the Oklahoman Republican party, or I will have some more half baked commentary on being a millionaire come Wodan’s Day.

Thanks for reading, thanks for the advise, thanks for the comments, and thanks for the tips. Till next time, make mine Dark Horse (can’t let Disney get all the love).

Who in this scene has the most confidence?

Networking Made Easy, or, Why the Tired Blogger Can Find Neither a Mentor Nor a Date for Groundhog Day

“That fly will never reproduce.” Movies make it look so easy. The local janitor is a karate master, and if I will just humble myself enough to wax his car, I can learn how to be badass. Budget cuts in most organizations, you’re lucky if they have hired a janitor at all instead of outsourcing.

My last couple of posts have been reviews of The One Minute Millionaire. I’ll leave links below in case you wanna catch up or get a night…er recap.

https://wordpress.com/post/tiredmidnightblogger.com/4924

https://wordpress.com/post/tiredmidnightblogger.com/4982

Likely after reading this one everyone will understand why I’m not a millionaire. I won’t leave a lame excuse here; I will just share the half bassed work I am doing and share some thoughts on why it is so difficult to find a mentor. As a refresher I will share what my task for the near future is (saying that I actually have the wherewithal to go through with this).

  • 1. Make a List of Missing Resources. Writing down the resources that you feel you lack to help you reach your goal.
  • 2. Network Within Your Own Circle of Contacts. You probably already know someone-who knows someone-who has the answers to your questions. Call them up and ask: Do you have the answer or solution?
  • 3. Widen Your Search. Once you know what you are lacking, you can usually find the names of potential mentors…on the Internet-for a price.
“Oz never did give nothing to the Tin Man that he didn’t, didn’t already have.” In a very simplistic way, Dorothy’s companions were on a search for a mentor, who found a way to bring out the virtues in them they didn’t realize they already had. Is my quest going to end the same way? “If I only had a brain…da da da da da da da.”

Likely I should add to my list a brain, a heart, and the noive.

Resources I need in order to accomplish my goals. A mentor. A team. A network. A community. I need to either figure out how to work the system or find a system where I fit and get it working. I need a place to belong.

I feel like I belong on the Island of Misfit Toys.

I need startup capital. Revenue. Sales. For that, I need the idea. A good or a service to sell. I need a support system. I need hope. I need confidence. I need a plan.

I need inspiration so powerful it will get me through the hard times ahead.

Network Within Your Own Circle of Contacts.

If only I were as good at networking as Dorothy.

I’ve been pretty transparent about my poverty. I am willing to share that I don’t have a huge network, but I don’t think my friends want me sharing all of their personal information. So instead, I’ll just share what I am learning about networking.

https://www.goskills.com/Soft-Skills/Resources/Networking-tips

https://www.scienceofpeople.com/networking/

https://www.northeastern.edu/graduate/blog/networking-tips/

When you’ve spent half your life wanting to be a hermit, networking can be challenging.

According to Kat Boogaard of goskills.com “In the early part of my career, I thought networking was totally smarmy and unsavory,” explains Halelly Azulay, CEO of TalentGrow and Creator and Host of The TalentGrow Show podcast, “I tried to avoid it as much as I could, because I didn’t really understand what networking was and how to do it properly.”

“But, now I understand that when you define networking as simply building and maintaining mutually-beneficial long-term relationships with others, it’s an important part of professional life and I wish I had started practicing it sooner,” she adds.

“Building your connections can provide you with invaluable opportunities to exchange information, get advice from experienced peers, and in many cases achieve your career goals. And as Azulay says above, networking is meant to be mutually beneficial—you may have the rewarding experience of contributing to a connection’s success in return.”

She then proceeds to share 18 tips for networking. I won’t list them all here, I’ll share the ones that will be helpful to me and some of my friends.

Prepare for whatever event you are going to. Heck…I guess I should start going to stuff.

Pack plenty of business cards. Note to self, get business cards.

Bring someone with you. Well, all my married friends, you don’t mind telling your family you are going out with Curtis to some “networking” event…right.

A Tired Blogger’s idea of networking.

Obviously, I need to ramp up my game.

Not to be outdone, Vanessa Van Edwards of Scienceofpeople.com also has 18 tips for networking. Her tips are more along my line of thinking, having said that, I know from experience that what has worked for her will most certainly NOT work for me.

Example: what should you do with your nametag at the event?

Her advice is pretty self-evident. Look around, see if everyone else has their full name, name and title, or just first name, and do what the Romans are doing. But her bonus tip is what would get me in trouble.

“Bonus Tip: When you can, add a conversation starter to your name-tag. Notice that everyone else is putting their company name? Unless your company name is intriguing, try writing a catch phrase like: “Non-Spammy Sales Guy” or “Marketing Guru” or “Leadership Interpreter.”
“Quick Story: I used to put “Science of People” on my nametags and now I never do. Why? No one really asked about it. Now I put, “Behavioral Investigator” or “Author” or, if I am feeling really brave, “Human Lie Detector.”

Just in case any of my bosses read this…don’t worry, I will be the bland professional I am supposed to be. But if I were allowed to be myself (all the books say to be yourself…and they LIE!) I would so put down that I am “Curtisimo Del Fuego, Tyrant for Life of Sedonia.” From the reactions I’ve gotten for emails that were quite a bit milder than that, I can already tell you that at most corporate functions that would fly like a lead balloon. Having said that, I at least DO have the self-control to NOT TRASH the motel where the function is held.

SI don’t know why my bosses had a problem with my attire at the last work function. I thought I cut a very dashing figure. Comments welcome.

She also has quite a lot of advice for networking action plans, various etiquette tips, and ideas for how best to use your business cards. I am personally going to print out her site and memorize it. Or at least read it very extensively. It really is that good, but it is also so extensive, I don’t wish to quote it and leave the impression I’ve given all the best that she has to share. Go check them out. Unless you are a marketing whizz, in which case, what will it take to get you to mentor me? Feel free to comment and I’ll be sure you get good contact information. You know. For me.

Tamar Shulsinger of Northeastern University is either much less ambitious, or much more succinct. She only lists seven tips to networking. She begins with this quote: “As entrepreneur Porter Gale put it, “Your network is your net worth.”

Tamerlane was the military genius who founded the Timurid Empire. Claiming to be descendent of Genghis Khan, he conquered a huge chunk of Asia, from Russia to India, using savage network marketing and the Genesis Device against Admiral James T. Kirk. My overpaid assistants say that last part may be wrong.

Here is her list: 1) if a connection has a new achievement, such as a promotion, a marriage, the conquest of an ancient Mongolian province, congratulate them. 2) Always say thank you to your allies. Maybe even your enemies. It confuses them. 3) Engage them with content. I try to do this, but sometimes this annoys people. And I’m pretty sure Elon Musk just thinks I am a spammer. 4) Meet them in person. If possible, stalk them until they call the police. This has been the real secret behind my success. 5) Offer your guidance. Um…in my case it consists mainly of volunteering to be the “before” exhibit. 6) Communicate regularly. 7) Then she lists some advice for reconnecting with old acquaintances. I’ll let you read that one, as I am frankly the worst when it comes to reconnecting with anyone. I’m not saying it never happens, but I’m sure most old acquaintances wonder if I have passed away.

I took this image from the Northwestern University website. Here we have a beautiful woman pointing out that “this is what is called a computer” to a man who obviously has never seen one before.

Widen Your Search

Well, the local janitor and the dumpster diving homeless person turned me down, so I guess I will, in fact, have to widen my search. Maybe I’ll call Merry Maids. Mentors R Us. I hear Jack Gleeson needs a job.

This guy looks successful and confident. I wonder if he will be my friend? Hey dude! Will you be my mentor. Ouch! Ouch! Why are these guys hitting me?

Take on Me (Take on Me), Take Me On (Take On Me), a Millionaire Gone…to the Bahamas!

The 80s were a banner decade both to become and to be a millionaire. It was also a wonderful time for music. Trickledown economics was being preached from the Whitehouse, and unless you were an alcoholic in Oklahoma, your prospects for the future could be pretty good. I miss you, Reagan.

Your Tired Blogger (what blogs at midnight) is doing a public service by reviewing The One Minute Millionaire. I’ll read all the trite comments about how you can do it if you just try hard enough with a positive mental attitude, so you don’t have to, and let you know if the book is worth reading. Last week I did a review of the first 100 pages, this week I will proceed to write about the “ahas” from the book, their ideas about mentoring, and see what the next hundred pages tells us. I’ll leave a link to the last post in case anyone wants a refresher:

https://wordpress.com/post/tiredmidnightblogger.com/4924

Let’s begin.

I believed this man’s image of economics for twenty-five years. Was I wrong? Comments welcome.

Aha! Moments to Learn How to be Rich.

After a brief introduction, Hansen & Allen (nothing like Hall & Oates) begin a dual edged teaching method. Their reasoning is that some are “right brained,” and others are “left brained.” So, the left-hand pages have the principles and teachings of wealth laid out and explained, while the right have a story about a widow who finds herself in dire poverty after her husband dies. In the process she loses her children to her rich in-laws who are about as ethical as Putin’s invasion of Ukraine.

The story is fairly trite, and I find it hard to believe some of the things that happen in it, but then again, it is fiction. And as I told my friend Stacy, truth is often stranger than fiction. The principles they begin with are the foundational “ahas” that the rest is built off of, rather like the axioms of a geometrical proof. Only, sometimes, with less logic.

The book has 24 core principles. I won’t bore you with all of them, I’ll just give highlights from the three I think most relevant.

  1. Be, do, have. I’ve read this one elsewhere. The premise is first be the person you want to be, then do the things that will make you successful, and lastly you will have what you want.
  2. Define specifically what your dream/goal is, then visualize every day having attained this, and visualize doing the things you need to do to achieve it. And obviously, take action based off of your goals.
  3. The book has a simple process for working out what talents you need to be using in order to fulfill your dream. It’s not as good as What Color is Your Parachute? But it does offer a good place to start. From my work on this I am half bassed trying to figure out my plan. I need to somehow inculcate my skill as a writer, a researcher, and a presenter/teacher. If I can somehow figure out how to use my best strengths, which are those skills, maybe I have a shot.

Chow Yun Fat is My Master

Morihei Ueshiba, the founder of the martial art Aikido. In the martial arts it is a big deal who your master is. The point of the movie Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon was to throw the idea upside down. Instead of a student begging a master to teach, the master strives to convince the student to change masters. Who is your master?

You can say what you want about Eastern philosophy, I think one thing they have right is that you need a mentor. In the west we find the term “master” to be distasteful (unless you are a billionaire with washboard abs), but if you study Easter philosophy a master was often simply a mentor. The sensei is sometimes no more than a teacher.

But at the end of the day, we cannot all be Miyamoto Musashi. Most of us need teachers if we are ever to learn the skills we desire.

I’ll be honest, I haven’t had a true mentor since I left high school. I can hear some of my friends now. “What about Sensei N—-?”

I’m afraid that is a post for another day. Honestly, if I had any mentors in my adult life, I’d say Melvin Jones. But as great as that man was, he wouldn’t have been able to teach me how to be a millionaire.

Somedays I feel like becoming a millionaire is as likely as me becoming a Shaolin master…

A mentor. There’s the rub. I’ve even formally asked people to be my mentor. And at least in one case it is actually my bad. I get so busy, and they are so busy, and now some months have gone by, and I just feel stupid.

Any millionaires out there think you could teach me? I’m definitely open to positive suggestions. Comments welcome.

On page 136 OMM says “If the day-to-day kind of mentor doesn’t spontaneously “appear,” you must seek him or her out. How is this done?

  • 1. Make a List of Missing Resources. Writing down the resources that you feel you lack to help you reach your goal.
  • 2. Network Within Your Own Circle of Contacts. You probably already know someone-who knows someone-who has the answers to your questions. Call them up and ask: Do you have the answer or solution?
  • 3. Widen Your Search. Once you know what you are lacking, you can usually find the names of potential mentors…on the Internet-for a price.
Well over a decade in sales, and I still sometimes feel like this guy when I try to persuade someone.

The remaining information about mentors is fascinating, and likely correct, but I’m gonna tell you, it is also intimidating to this Tired Blogger. They point out (as I have found out) that someone who will make a good mentor is often busy as crud. And then I am busy as crud. “A request for mentorship will fall at the bottom of their to-do list. The only way to move to the top of their to-do list is to find out what your mentors want, attach yourself to one of their top priorities, and help them accomplish it.”

What do my readers think? This sounds like a good idea, but I’ll admit…I have little idea about where to begin.

I guess I’m going to take some personal stock of where I’m at and where I want to be, and see if I can figure out a mentor for acquiring the specific skills or items I need to take my first steps in the directions of the goals.

I know I’m ending this on a rather abrupt note. My next post will either be a continuation of this review, or if I haven’t made enough progress either through the book or through my personal work, I will write on another topic.

Be excellent to each other, and mentors wanted.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbvbIN0nN7A

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnCfV0IcgJ0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BLv04b6bRqc